tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913339232928029866.post6204265709614322726..comments2023-04-16T06:05:15.534-07:00Comments on Conscious Medicine: Are we that afraid of each other?Ms. Hendersonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09733400720484939784noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913339232928029866.post-7764209421721725802008-08-22T10:17:00.000-07:002008-08-22T10:17:00.000-07:00ok wait, what u were saying about being afraid of ...ok wait, what u were saying about being afraid of each other reminded me when i was at the hairdresser the other day..and my stylist was like "let me know if i hurt u" as she's combing my hair out. then every second she asks "are u ok", "are u ok"..and i gave her the most obviously "WILL YOU STOP ASKING ME" look on the planet. so she was like "i'm sorry i keep asking u, but i'm one of those people that never speaks up when the water is too hot or when the stylist is hurting my head. so i want to make sure, in case you are that person too, that you are "really" ok. its funny, but i'm the most tender-headed person on the planet, and a chic will KILL me..but there's a process that i go thru in my head on whether to say something or not. and sometimes i do, sometimes i dont. its not a matter of being afraid, its more like, u dont want to burden that person if they dont seem like they will welcome your response. i dont know *shrugs*<BR/>-toyTasheetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01509185877102633804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913339232928029866.post-35601285367780719992008-08-22T10:11:00.000-07:002008-08-22T10:11:00.000-07:00this is my favorite blog.ok i'm done :)-Toythis is my favorite blog.<BR/>ok i'm done :)<BR/>-ToyTasheetahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01509185877102633804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913339232928029866.post-15266442023072555632008-08-20T15:09:00.000-07:002008-08-20T15:09:00.000-07:00wow u did raise a bunch of interesting points and ...wow u did raise a bunch of interesting points and made some interesting observations. I too have seen some of these things u talk about nice to see it presented in this forum. But yeah I don't think we are afraid of each other I think that ppl are just afraid to express themselves. For the same reason that the lady tries to brush said crumbs away on the low, she is aware of her situation but afraid of expressing her displeasure to everyone on the train so she rather suffer silently. I think more ppl should work on expressing themselves cuz think about it, you can look at a train setting isn't much different from a club.You would think the club is worse, it's dark, people are drinking, and on top of that you are expected to express yourself. The difference is it's dark and expression is a little more private so ppl are a little more inclined to say what they feel. anyway great post look forward to more!AdrianChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17237848948299184370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913339232928029866.post-7099806622026862712008-08-20T06:54:00.000-07:002008-08-20T06:54:00.000-07:00Let me say this Lady Dee. I think staring at one o...Let me say this Lady Dee. I think staring at one on the train is very rude. Now if you just look and turn away that's something different but to just stare at me is rude and I will have to let you know. NY is a city of "Hustle and Bustle" no one is going to take the time out to say hi. I lived here for 32yrs and you have pleasant NYers and then you have not so pleasant ones. People are so busy and tuned into what they do best they really don't take the time out to say anything. Myself can be an outgoing person but you have those that aren't, everyone has a different personality. I have to say all of the things you mention is so, so true. But hey it's the Big Apple and it wouldn't be that way if we didn't have so many interesting people to laugh and look at.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Fly Ty---OUT!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06654481058161381700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913339232928029866.post-10875055649106150752008-08-20T05:57:00.000-07:002008-08-20T05:57:00.000-07:00You forget to mention the infamous stinkies that f...You forget to mention the infamous stinkies that forget to put on deodarent or dont believe in it, I mean that is one of the most uncomfortable situations, you get on the train, get comfortable.... take a deep breath, and want to DIE because your stomach cannot take the stench of the "death pit syndrome" or whatever else the smell is coming from.<BR/>This is hard to deal with, I mean what do you say "Hey what deodarent are you using?" or "Your armpits smell like something died in them, whats the deal?"<BR/>Or do you just silently slip away from the wonderful seat you had from your long hard day?<BR/><BR/>Great topic though Dee.<BR/><BR/>People are afraid of one another because ppl in NY are NUTS, KOO KOO, MENTAL.. and noone wants to take any chances. Seen the news lately? lolAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07879839172601898293noreply@blogger.com