Showing posts with label trife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label trife. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

You are only as strong as your weakest link........the slow DEMISE of RICK ROSS

You are only as strong as your weakest link is what they say! This is the truth. Who we decide to keep around us..and especially when we are in relationships is crucial to the way the chips may fall for us in the long run.

I usually do not discuss stories that are in the news that are revolved around hip hop because there is unfortunately so much buffoonery and disgrace that IS Hip Hop these days, things are rarely worth mentioning, BUT, this is a lesson in character and is very relevant to EVERYONE and ANYONE...because it can happen to you!

So since I have to be on top of what goes in the media for the most part, I am aware of this silly child drama that has occurred between Rick Ross and 50 Cent. For the record anytime I hear 50 has "beef" with anyone in the industry and they are an artist, I am looking to see a slow death start to take place.

We all can remember how he BURIED Ja Rule when he was at the HEIGHT of his career, he came at Camron he is still missing even though he JUST recently surfaced (YAY!), bringing it back to the point, it is seemingly possible for him to do this to anyone, he is just that sort of dude that has a following, has the charm, wit, and swag to do this and get away with it...EVEN if he is NOT on his own A game.

So...when I heard the bars that Rick Ross spit about 50 cents baby mother I was *scratching my head*....I think Rick Ross last 2 albums were ILL, and I have liked him as an artist since he first came out..but to hear this, it did not make sense to me. I think he was unaware of WHO he was talking about. Or maybe he thought that since 50 has been pretty quiet and doing more movies and business deals than rap it was fare game to ATTEMPT to try to humiliate him and it would be "OK"....hmmmm...well...

To make a very long story short 50..being 50....contacted Rick Ross's Baby mother of his son, Miss TIA (who is by the way a "call girl" since Rick Ross does not support her, so she says) and he coaxed her to coming to meet him to discuss her baby father, AKA Rick Ross. She basically sold her "BABY FATHER" out putting all his business on BLAST, making him look like a serious FOOLYWANG, and all for what....50 video blogs taking her to Kaufman furs..buys her a fur, takes her to GUCCI buys her various pairs of shoes...and she prances around like a worthless piece of mucket she is. I have included the video for you to see below:





I cannot BEGIN to tell you how nauseated and disgusted I am as a woman that she can call herself a Woman, and smile and feel good about what she has done. OK....he might not pay his child support, his jewelry is rented, and he may be fronting for his rap career blah blah blah...SO WHAT! What does that have to with you TIA, who obviously did not have time to try to cultivate a respectful woman out of yourself because you were too busy pole sliding and being a whore, and looking for a man to rescue your silly self..in my opinion you appear to be even more STUPID and ignorant for allowing a man to treat you like piss on the curb, and manipulate you to selling out someone who probably would have had your back if you needed it. 50 does not care about you and him buying you a slew of shoes and a fur is snacks and cake for him. SMDH!

You have officially made yourself the poster child for being a sneak, rat, sell out trifling truffle of 2009!

The purpose of this to to say to everyone... there are people in YOUR life right now who you think love you and has your back but if some green came in the picture and a little bit of fame...would turn on you in an instant.

They always say a man's woman is the weakest link in a man's empire if she is not strong, can destroy a man's entire dynasty. This is true.

The way we treat ourselves as women in turn will be the fate of the way those will treat you in this world. You think 50 had to think twice about approaching this woman, he KNEW what he was dealing with from jump and knew she would bite the bait based on the way she carried herself. SMARTEN UP LADIES!

It is a dog eat dog society and, I am a woman and I say, MEN be careful who you "wife" up, lay down with, hold hands with, impregnate and allow to be that thread in your Coogi because as you can see "there is nothing like a woman scorned".


50 Cent has started something that can very well now become violent, because at the end of the day these are MEN. Forget rap, lyrics and fame, this stuff is just downright disrespectful. I hope things are handled civilly and that it can be collectively seen.

The youth of today are feeding off of this garbage, and they love it, so since you have these young people's attention...turn it into something positive, and let them see how men can really handle differences! When will the madness stop?

Thursday, January 8, 2009

The Trifling Truffle! EVIL B**** are amongst us!

OK...so for my fellas this has been LONG overdue! "Dee why you always coming at us men"? and the most OUTRAGEOUS one "Dee, are you a male brasher"?...like DUH! NO! anybody who knows me KNOWS I praise and LOVE a good man! So ....Today I will focus on the anatomy of the female B***! And yes you read right!

As I watched a movie the other night with someone extremely close to me (I am withholding name for privacy), they went on to tell me about a story that I thought had to be the most trifling tale of 2009 thus far! and it goes a little something like this....

(Names have been changed to protect the innocent...NYC is smaller than you think). TRUE STORY.

Trevor and Omar are cousins. Omar's girl Sheila is BAD! Trevor always admired Sheila but never ever thought of pushing up out of respect. Circa 1995 Omar starts getting more familiar in the rap game, going on tour with big artists, rolling in the entourage's of HUGE names, and forgets about Sheila. Well as life happens, Trevor is there for Sheila while Omar is living the life. Trevor goes to Omar circa 2001 as a man like, " Bro, I love her, I know you and her are done, but out of respect I am thinking about proposing to Sheila". Omar is like "Wow, hey do you. I'm good. Wish you the best".

Life is sweet, Trevor does right by Sheila. Marries her they have 2 kids. Trevor decides to enlist in the army soon after. He cant get a break as a black man, and he goes for it. Of course since this is close to "9-11" they ship him right to Iraq. He writes, she responds..everything appears fine on the surface. He gets news ...He is finally going home...JUST RECENTLY!

So now we are at the present date 2009! He comes home to find out that Sheila not only has been seeing OMAR...she is 5 months PREGNANT by OMAR the other cousin!

NOW! This ish right here makes me wanna HOLLA! Here you are a man's wife, and his children's mother...and you have the nerve while this man is getting grenades thrown at his neck on the daily..risking his life, everyday in a foreign land so he can provide for you who ain't never worked a day in your life...you have the nerve to sleep with his cousin and get pregnant!

This is a typical, regular occurrence within our society...women can be some of the most trifling, conniving, selfish, gold digging, greedy, jealous, SHADY specimens I have ever seen. I have touched on this before with women and women but I will focus on the behavior of the B*** with the opposite sex today.

There are women who do the following, and I know this from experience, and my homeboys experience's. Here are some prime examples:

They date one man JUST to get closer to the next. They befriend the girlfriend of a man THEY want. They flirt with their homegirl's men behind their friends back. They have children by men and tell the men the kid's are hungry and use the money to get a doobie and some acyrlic on their bum nails! They call their baby father in the middle of the night claiming the baby is sick when in actuality when dude gets there she is standing there with a teddy on waiting to be smashed and she knows he just left his current girlfriend at home. They spend hours on the phone with you, gain your trust as a friend and start spreading rumors and lies to everyone and tells your business. They don't get up to go to work, even when they COULD, they rather sleep with Jason, Brock and Maurice to get their bills paid. They think because they ride, slip and slide with another woman's man that he belongs to her and he will leave his wife. They fight with other women in the street over men who aren't there's. They go through their man's phone, email and texts just to be nosy! This is horrible!

I can go on and on! The descriptions above are disgusting and unacceptable on all levels. The women I describe are among all of us, and you might be that woman. Do I care to curb my aggressions if you are ...NO! You must stop being a "Trifling Truffle".

That is the name of the these women. Why? Because most of these women appear to be pretty put together..hott...tempting.. and appealing as truffles are. Truffles are creamy delicate chocolate candies.....and who wouldn't want some of that? But underneath that buttermilk is some of the most deadliest venom of trife you wanna see...and men and women... BEWARE!

Women are very smart too...We know how to get what we want, and in a sly about way. She will ride you ...check your voicemail..after detecting the code and be out there doing EVERYTHING under the sun...and you wont have a clue! She will make you feel like you are her only knight in shining armor and turn around and share her goodness with your boys, because their paper is longer! She will be amongst you and your friends with your girl being there and she will talk nasty about how she can drop it likes its hot so she can secretly make you get excited IN FRONT of your girl. She will wear NOTHING but a bra and panties to the club because she wants someone to take her skank butt home. I could go on for days, and it makes me sad. It really does.

I love my Sisters! I love them so much! I love when women can truly love each other and form a bond and help each other to grow, but a sister like me, I cannot do this with just anybody. I am a woman with class, respect, and honor, and I work hard. YOU HEAR ME! Just as soooo many of us are, we cannot allow this beast into our circles.

We must start identifying the trifling truffle and calling it out and making sure to keep the trifling truffle away! I am not saying save the trifling truffle for she will be the only one to save herself! As the saying goes, "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife"..never have never will. She has to rehabilitate herself, she must see for herself that she can be a TROPHY TRUFFLE!

I am no longer trying to save these bitter specimens. I have befriended some trifling truffles in my day to try to help and encourage them and they always strike! I am done. I will love from a distance and encourage them in ways that won't drain my spirit.

As my friend said to me at the end of the conversation when he told me this unfortunate story he said, "Dee, you look surprised there are evil bitches in the world...you better know"....So I tell you .....BEWARE of the EVILNESS of the TRIFLING TRUFFLE..She is on the prowl looking for her next victim. And she may be wearing GUCCI shoes....lol.

LOVE YOU ALL!!!!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BABYCAKES..BRIE!!!!

Have a great wekeend!!!! I plan to! BE SAFE!

XOXOXO