I had a conversation with someone recently in which the person said to me "Life is really based on all the decisions that you end up making". As the person said this, I was finishing their sentence but then for some reason it really hit me. Whatever I decided to do yesterday and today, will play a part in my today and tomorrows.
It takes a great deal of discipline and commitment for you to get up every single day, analyze and make each move strategic because you have your future in mind. Many will say I do this all the time, but you really don't always. If you did, you would not be speaking to that guy, you would not go there, you would not have done this and the list could go on and on. We take such huge risks on a daily basis and recover from them so effortlessly that we don't even realize it. It is just human for us all to not always think so seriously and hard about what we are about to do and what can come out of our mouths at all times. We forget how crucial this is.
As I always say Life can be whatever you decide to make it. You wanting to frown or smile through it all is totally on you. It will not always be easy, not even for the person who was born with a silver spoon in their mouth. There will always be some sort of obstacle or disadvantage that will not be what you want. It really comes down to your reaction and how you deal with it that makes whatever it is a lesson learned or in a vain.
Our minds are so powerful. You can simply change your way of thinking and change your life. You can choose to think positive about every single occurrence that happens in your world and it can play such a positive effect that you adapt it as a habit.
John Wayne once said:
"Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday."