NYC is what a friend of mine has once described as " Flashy Splashy and Extra". It is also a beautiful place to live, not only because it is the capital of all things FRESH and NEW, it's always something to do, and always SOMEBODY to do as well. How could people not be sooo physically stimulated in a city where finding a date/mate can feel like the 8th floor at SAKS ...tooo many FAB choices to choose from!
It makes it difficult for a person who is attractive, sensible, and driven to think of NOT getting the best of what this city has to offer, and in many cases that can include sampling some of someone elses "goodies", because hey....why not.
The bigger problem at hand occurs when the music stops and you are dealing with the person that has been with about 4 to 5 of your friends. SMH! Now for some, this does not matter, because hey, the past was the past and that should be the least of your worries, but then again if your current fling has been with Melissa, and you know Melissa has been through the hustlers/baller's/rappers/and Executive's of the tri-state and in addition you know she is not the most "hygienic" girl out the bunch..this can clearly make you wanna scream!!!!
It really is hard out here for some who pride giving up their round trip ticket to heaven so easily, especially when so many women will let anyone board their planes for free with no boarding pass. (figuratively speaking) . It is these women who make it hard out here for so many others, and then make it even harder to want to take something seriously with someone when you know where they have been and how they have been touched.
When it's all said and done...All is fair in love, and fabulousness in NYC..right? Brush your shoulders off and enjoy the youthfulness, adventure and excitement that comes along with mating season!
You know how it is when the weather breaks here....the music starts playing....and everybody is fighting for a nice "chair" to sit on. All I can say is just be safe!!!!
Have a FABNIFICENT weekend!!!! 80 degrees is on the come up!